It’s to very carefully examine his speech and its impacts, by looking at the evidence available (asking people he’s interacted with about what it’s like to listen to him) and also learning how to be open to real-time feedback (like, actually look at the person you’re speaking to as though they’re a full, real human—not a pair of ears to be talked into or a mind to insert things into).
I think I interacted with Vassar four times in person, so I might get some things wrong here, but I think that he’s pretty disassociated from his body which closes a normal channel of perceiving impacts on the person he’s speaking with. This thing looks to me like some bodily process generating stress / pain and being a cause for disassociation. It might need a body worker to fix whatever goes on there to create the conditions for perceiving the other person better.
Beyond that Circling might be an enviroment in which one can learn to interact with others as humans who have their own feelings but that would require opening up to the Circling frame.
I think I interacted with Vassar four times in person, so I might get some things wrong here, but I think that he’s pretty disassociated from his body which closes a normal channel of perceiving impacts on the person he’s speaking with. This thing looks to me like some bodily process generating stress / pain and being a cause for disassociation. It might need a body worker to fix whatever goes on there to create the conditions for perceiving the other person better.
Beyond that Circling might be an enviroment in which one can learn to interact with others as humans who have their own feelings but that would require opening up to the Circling frame.