I’ve seen the term used a few times on LW. Despite the denotational usefulness, it’s very hard to keep it from connotationally being a slur, not without something like there being an existing slur and the new term getting defined to be its denotational non-slur counterpart (how it actually sounds also doesn’t help).
So it’s a good principle to not give it power by using it (at least in public).
I’ve seen the term used a few times on LW. Despite the denotational usefulness, it’s very hard to keep it from connotationally being a slur, not without something like there being an existing slur and the new term getting defined to be its denotational non-slur counterpart (how it actually sounds also doesn’t help).
So it’s a good principle to not give it power by using it (at least in public).