Well, I am genuinely appreciative of your attempts to explain, whether they are getting through or not.
Actually, I should be thanking you and the other people I’ve been replying to, because I just realized what pure gold I ended up with. I didn’t actually realize I had an implicit synthesis of the entire self-help field on my hands; in fact, I never consciously synthesized it before. And when I was telling my wife about it this evening, the ramifications of what should be possible under this simplified model hit me like a ton of bricks.
And it was the questions that Vladimir Nesov, gjm, Vladimir Golovin and others asked—about the techniques, the model, the self-help field in general, the similarities -- combined with sprocket’s post about “A/B” thinking that primed me with the right context to put it all together in a tightly integrated way. The refined model makes everything make a whole lot more sense to me—failures and successes alike. (For example, I now have an idea of why certain “affirmation” techniques are likely to work better than others, for some poeple.)
As soon as I get some rest, I have some things I want to try. Because if this more-unified model is indeed “less wrong” than my previous one, I just “levelled up” in my art. Frackin’ awesome! I think my massive investment of time here is actually going to pay off.
But whether it enables me to do anything new or not, this revision is still a big step forward in simplified communication regarding what I already do. So either way...
Thank you, LWers, I couldn’t have done it without you!
And it was the questions that Vladimir Nesov, gjm, Vladimir Golovin and others asked—about the techniques, the model, the self-help field in general, the similarities—combined with sprocket’s post about “A/B” thinking that primed me with the right context to put it all together in a tightly integrated way. The refined model makes everything make a whole lot more sense to me—failures and successes alike. (For example, I now have an idea of why certain “affirmation” techniques are likely to work better than others, for some poeple.)
Hmmm… I wish you well, but usually this kind of revelation, when put into writing and left to draw on a shelf for a couple of weeks, reveals itself as much less wonderful than it originally seemed to be. Although usually it’s also a step forward, even if in the direction opposite to where you were walking before.
Actually, I should be thanking you and the other people I’ve been replying to, because I just realized what pure gold I ended up with. I didn’t actually realize I had an implicit synthesis of the entire self-help field on my hands; in fact, I never consciously synthesized it before. And when I was telling my wife about it this evening, the ramifications of what should be possible under this simplified model hit me like a ton of bricks.
And it was the questions that Vladimir Nesov, gjm, Vladimir Golovin and others asked—about the techniques, the model, the self-help field in general, the similarities -- combined with sprocket’s post about “A/B” thinking that primed me with the right context to put it all together in a tightly integrated way. The refined model makes everything make a whole lot more sense to me—failures and successes alike. (For example, I now have an idea of why certain “affirmation” techniques are likely to work better than others, for some poeple.)
As soon as I get some rest, I have some things I want to try. Because if this more-unified model is indeed “less wrong” than my previous one, I just “levelled up” in my art. Frackin’ awesome! I think my massive investment of time here is actually going to pay off.
But whether it enables me to do anything new or not, this revision is still a big step forward in simplified communication regarding what I already do. So either way...
Thank you, LWers, I couldn’t have done it without you!
Hmmm… I wish you well, but usually this kind of revelation, when put into writing and left to draw on a shelf for a couple of weeks, reveals itself as much less wonderful than it originally seemed to be. Although usually it’s also a step forward, even if in the direction opposite to where you were walking before.