All I can say is this hasn’t been my experience. Many of my friends are transgirls. No on has de-friended me or treated me badly because I am off estrogen. It is well known that many people who de-transition later re-transition. And I am still queer. Regardless majority transgirl spaces are usually accepting of cis people as long as the cis people are actually into the local transgirl dominated culture.
Anecdotally, the big issue seems to be when people detransition because of severe medical issues, especially permanent ones. Because in that case they sometimes want to warn others about those medical issues, or at least don’t want to be silent when the medical issues are downplayed, and this causes tension with trans people who want to downplay them.
Anecdotally, the big issue seems to be when people detransition because of severe medical issues, especially permanent ones. Because in that case they sometimes want to warn others about those medical issues, or at least don’t want to be silent when the medical issues are downplayed, and this causes tension with trans people who want to downplay them.