Moreover, the policy signals you have bad social skills and are unlikely to spot lies. This doesn’t matter much though if you strongly signal it in other ways already.
Also, if someone wanted to tarnish your reputation, they’d lie to you, get caught and try to make you act hostile when other people are around. You possibly hedge against this already. The other people, unless close friends, will be on the liar’s side in a situation like this, no matter how justified you feel.
My policy: if I catch someone lying to me about something significant, I put them in a zero trust zone. I will not confront them about their lies unless absolutely necessary or the person is absolutely useless and I will act friendly or neutral. Since they think they haven’t been caught, their lies will get stupider and easier to spot, combine this with my heightened suspicion and they will be relatively harmless. This also enables me to trip them over better if need be since I can plan and time my moves. On top of this I’ll still get the benefits of their friendliness if any.
Moreover, the policy signals you have bad social skills and are unlikely to spot lies. This doesn’t matter much though if you strongly signal it in other ways already.
Also, if someone wanted to tarnish your reputation, they’d lie to you, get caught and try to make you act hostile when other people are around. You possibly hedge against this already. The other people, unless close friends, will be on the liar’s side in a situation like this, no matter how justified you feel.
My policy: if I catch someone lying to me about something significant, I put them in a zero trust zone. I will not confront them about their lies unless absolutely necessary or the person is absolutely useless and I will act friendly or neutral. Since they think they haven’t been caught, their lies will get stupider and easier to spot, combine this with my heightened suspicion and they will be relatively harmless. This also enables me to trip them over better if need be since I can plan and time my moves. On top of this I’ll still get the benefits of their friendliness if any.