The past was a more small-town place. If you were travelling and went to an inn, the exoticism of being from out-of-town would have been greater. People would have been more willing to socialise with you for the novelty, and also to try and take advantage of you.
Basically, if you have high value in some sense, people will want to come chat to you. This could be because they want to sleep with you (as in the “attractive female” example above) but could be because they want to sell things to you, rob you, divert you from this bar to the one they own down the street, get your advice, get you to write a letter for them, get you to marry their sister, and so on.
This stuff doesn’t work so well in Western countries these days because the law is stronger, bars are better at excluding miscreants, and our society is more atomised. But go to a third-world country, look like a rich Westerner—or, even better, a rich Westerner with ties to their culture—and you’ll see it constantly.
The past was a more small-town place. If you were travelling and went to an inn, the exoticism of being from out-of-town would have been greater. People would have been more willing to socialise with you for the novelty, and also to try and take advantage of you.
Basically, if you have high value in some sense, people will want to come chat to you. This could be because they want to sleep with you (as in the “attractive female” example above) but could be because they want to sell things to you, rob you, divert you from this bar to the one they own down the street, get your advice, get you to write a letter for them, get you to marry their sister, and so on.
This stuff doesn’t work so well in Western countries these days because the law is stronger, bars are better at excluding miscreants, and our society is more atomised. But go to a third-world country, look like a rich Westerner—or, even better, a rich Westerner with ties to their culture—and you’ll see it constantly.