I’m somewhat sympathetic to that idea (I haven’t felt guilty about being straightish, but I’ve wished I were more bisexual once in a while, and succeeded in pushing myself in that direction in some cases), but I’m curious now: is gender the only dimension you’d apply that to? Would you also take a pill (again assuming it’s really really safe) that would make all outward physical attributes irrelevant to how attractive you find someone? Would you take a pill that would make you enjoy every non-harmful sexual practice/fetish (not necessarily seeking them out, but able to enjoy it if a partner initiated it)?
(I originally started writing this comment thinking something like “hmm, I’d take the bi-pill, but let’s take that reasoning to its vaguely-logical conclusion and see if it’s still palatable”, but now I’m actually thinking I’d probably take both of those pills too.)
I can’t believe I had never heard of that before. Fascinating.
A question if you can answer it. Wikipedia says:
When close proximity during this critical period does not occur—for example, where a brother and sister are brought up separately, never meeting one another—they may find one another highly sexually attractive when they meet as adults
The addition of “highly” seems to suggest that separated brothers and sisters find themselves especially or unusually attracted to one another. Is that the case or is Wikipedia just adding unnecessary adjectives?
Does “loli” mean non-persons and emotionally mature persons who look like a child, or are actual children (of average or below average emotional maturity) included by the effect?
If it meant the former, I would take the loli pill if the (unlikely) circumstances called for it. Why not? If it meant the latter, then you would have to tell your libido “no” a lot, but it wouldn’t necessarily lead to doing bad things. I doubt it would be worth the hassle, though, except in very special circumstances.
Actually, the biggest drawback to either version of the loli pill would probably be how society would react if they ever found out. It probably wouldn’t matter if the one you’re sleeping with is really 700 years old; you’d still get put on every sex offender registry out there, and shunned vigorously, at the very least. People are damn tense on this subject. Just look at how much trouble Christopher Handley got in for his manga collection.
Edit: I felt pretty uncomfortable writing this post, even though I know I shouldn’t be. Looks like this really is a good question.
If I understand correctly, loli only refers to cartoon depictions of preteen girls (and maybe roleplaying with that theme). Being attracted to actual preteen girls is just pedophilia.
(At least that’s what loli fans say. I’ve always been a bit confused by the distinction — I’ve known people into loli and shota who seemed to find actual children as unappealing as any normal person does, but I can’t quite figure out why a person would be turned on only by a cartoon and not the real thing.)
Japanese term for Lolita, which means young, pre-teen girls.
Google define:’s lolita as -
a sexually precocious young girl
In the marketing of legal pornography, lolita is used to refer to a neotenic female, frequently one who has only recently reached the age of consent, or appears to be younger than the age of consent. Usually overlaps with ‘barely legal’.
There is a well-established mechanism within the transformation fetish subculture making use of devices which work a bit like temporary tattoos, altering the subject’s body and/or personality in ways both profound and fully reversible. Like most magic intended to make a story possible rather than to make it interesting, the patches in question are entirely without negative side effects.
As demonstrated with Clippy, I would be willing to provide further information even if doing so does not serve my long-term interests in any obvious way.
Yes in all cases, but absolutely only if reversible.
I am asexual and thus have not experienced any of the romantic/sexual emotions. I feel as if doing so would almost certainly help my understanding of others, as well as broaden my emotional range. However, I seem to do quite fine without these emotions, and they seem to cause more problems than they are worth in many of the people around me. Therefore I would only take such pills if they were reversible, as my present state is quite happy and the alternative could certainly be worse.
However, I seem to do quite fine without these emotions, and they seem to cause more problems than they are worth in many of the people around me.
No kidding.
Do people remember that guy who was here at the very beginning and wouldn’t shut up about how the key to being rational was castration? I doubt that troll would have had much to say would have been helpful but the position has a certain intuitive plausibility to me. To begin with, I’m pretty sure the ebb and flow of sexual arousal would be really easy to money pump.
Those contributions were… interesting. I’m somewhat tempted to doubt the disclosure. While researching permanent forms of contraception, in particular vasectomy, I learned that the procedure was illegal in France up until a few years ago: it was considered “self-mutilation”. I’d be rather surprised to learn about someone getting elective castration, unless some plausible details substantiated that story.
Agreed. And I obviously wouldn’t volunteer. But sexuality does appear to generate some serious bias. I imagine straight men might be unreliable rebutters and evaluators of arguments made by attractive females, for example.
I’m somewhat sympathetic to that idea (I haven’t felt guilty about being straightish, but I’ve wished I were more bisexual once in a while, and succeeded in pushing myself in that direction in some cases), but I’m curious now: is gender the only dimension you’d apply that to? Would you also take a pill (again assuming it’s really really safe) that would make all outward physical attributes irrelevant to how attractive you find someone? Would you take a pill that would make you enjoy every non-harmful sexual practice/fetish (not necessarily seeking them out, but able to enjoy it if a partner initiated it)?
(I originally started writing this comment thinking something like “hmm, I’d take the bi-pill, but let’s take that reasoning to its vaguely-logical conclusion and see if it’s still palatable”, but now I’m actually thinking I’d probably take both of those pills too.)
Well, to ask the non-mainstream-relative-to-this-community version of the question, ask “Would I take the loli pill?”
How about the anti-Westermark effect pill? ;)
I can’t believe I had never heard of that before. Fascinating.
A question if you can answer it. Wikipedia says:
The addition of “highly” seems to suggest that separated brothers and sisters find themselves especially or unusually attracted to one another. Is that the case or is Wikipedia just adding unnecessary adjectives?
There are clearer language and relevant citations at (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sexual_attraction)
There is a hypothesis that claims that, but the evidence is dubious.
The two pills I proposed are mainstream relative to this community?
I’m surprised yet not surprised. Good to know, anyway.
(So, alright, would you take the loli pill?)
Does “loli” mean non-persons and emotionally mature persons who look like a child, or are actual children (of average or below average emotional maturity) included by the effect?
If it meant the former, I would take the loli pill if the (unlikely) circumstances called for it. Why not? If it meant the latter, then you would have to tell your libido “no” a lot, but it wouldn’t necessarily lead to doing bad things. I doubt it would be worth the hassle, though, except in very special circumstances.
Actually, the biggest drawback to either version of the loli pill would probably be how society would react if they ever found out. It probably wouldn’t matter if the one you’re sleeping with is really 700 years old; you’d still get put on every sex offender registry out there, and shunned vigorously, at the very least. People are damn tense on this subject. Just look at how much trouble Christopher Handley got in for his manga collection.
Edit: I felt pretty uncomfortable writing this post, even though I know I shouldn’t be. Looks like this really is a good question.
Upvoted for noticing discomfort
upvoted for citing tvtropes :)
Downvoted for encouraging such irresponsible behavior as citing TV Tropes!
You just say that because your karma is over nine thousand!
Loli means actual preteen girls.
If I understand correctly, loli only refers to cartoon depictions of preteen girls (and maybe roleplaying with that theme). Being attracted to actual preteen girls is just pedophilia.
(At least that’s what loli fans say. I’ve always been a bit confused by the distinction — I’ve known people into loli and shota who seemed to find actual children as unappealing as any normal person does, but I can’t quite figure out why a person would be turned on only by a cartoon and not the real thing.)
This is a really a frustrating exchange given the number of terms that need googling and the fact that I am in a public library.
The TV Tropes page is work-safe and pretty illuminating. No guarantees if you click on any of the links, though.
Google define:’s loli as -
Abbreviation of lolita
Japanese term for Lolita, which means young, pre-teen girls.
Google define:’s lolita as -
a sexually precocious young girl
In the marketing of legal pornography, lolita is used to refer to a neotenic female, frequently one who has only recently reached the age of consent, or appears to be younger than the age of consent. Usually overlaps with ‘barely legal’.
Because they’re lying
I’d definitely take all three of the above pills. In fact, I wonder how much harm such pills would have to do for me not to take them.
There is a well-established mechanism within the transformation fetish subculture making use of devices which work a bit like temporary tattoos, altering the subject’s body and/or personality in ways both profound and fully reversible. Like most magic intended to make a story possible rather than to make it interesting, the patches in question are entirely without negative side effects.
As demonstrated with Clippy, I would be willing to provide further information even if doing so does not serve my long-term interests in any obvious way.
Would it be reversible?
You can just answer it for each case. Would you take either pill if they were irreversible? If they were reversible?
Yes in all cases, but absolutely only if reversible.
I am asexual and thus have not experienced any of the romantic/sexual emotions. I feel as if doing so would almost certainly help my understanding of others, as well as broaden my emotional range. However, I seem to do quite fine without these emotions, and they seem to cause more problems than they are worth in many of the people around me. Therefore I would only take such pills if they were reversible, as my present state is quite happy and the alternative could certainly be worse.
No kidding.
Do people remember that guy who was here at the very beginning and wouldn’t shut up about how the key to being rational was castration? I doubt that troll would have had much to say would have been helpful but the position has a certain intuitive plausibility to me. To begin with, I’m pretty sure the ebb and flow of sexual arousal would be really easy to money pump.
Buying and selling bulk cupons for the service of prostitutes?
I was actually thinking pornographic website subscriptions. That works too, though.
Easy enough to find by searching. ;)
Those contributions were… interesting. I’m somewhat tempted to doubt the disclosure. While researching permanent forms of contraception, in particular vasectomy, I learned that the procedure was illegal in France up until a few years ago: it was considered “self-mutilation”. I’d be rather surprised to learn about someone getting elective castration, unless some plausible details substantiated that story.
Agreed. And I obviously wouldn’t volunteer. But sexuality does appear to generate some serious bias. I imagine straight men might be unreliable rebutters and evaluators of arguments made by attractive females, for example.