I don’t think these are normally useful ways of thinking about status posturing. Verbalising this stuff is a faux pas in the overwhelming majority of human social groups.
I’m not sure if I disagree with you on whether the message is “very likely” to be understood. In my limited experience, and with my below average people reading skills, I’d say that most status jockeying in non-intimate contexts is obvious enough for me to notice if I’m paying attention to the interaction.
The post you meant is probably Illusion of Transparency. I contend that it applies less strongly to in person status jockeying than to lingual information transfer. I suggest you watch a clip of a foreign language movie if you disagree.
implicit lie vs. social fiction
I don’t think these are normally useful ways of thinking about status posturing. Verbalising this stuff is a faux pas in the overwhelming majority of human social groups.
I’m not sure if I disagree with you on whether the message is “very likely” to be understood. In my limited experience, and with my below average people reading skills, I’d say that most status jockeying in non-intimate contexts is obvious enough for me to notice if I’m paying attention to the interaction.
The post you meant is probably Illusion of Transparency. I contend that it applies less strongly to in person status jockeying than to lingual information transfer. I suggest you watch a clip of a foreign language movie if you disagree.
Yes, that’s the post I was referring to. Thank you!