I think it’s a separate issue: in principle, you could have pretty much any norms about calling out other people’s bad behaviour along with pretty much any norms about how one person gets to find out what another wants. But I’d guess that willingness to make public objections like this correlates with Ask+Tell as opposed to Guess, and probably also with Tell as opposed to Ask.
I wonder where this form of communication lands in Ask, Tell, or Guess Culture?
I think it’s a separate issue: in principle, you could have pretty much any norms about calling out other people’s bad behaviour along with pretty much any norms about how one person gets to find out what another wants. But I’d guess that willingness to make public objections like this correlates with Ask+Tell as opposed to Guess, and probably also with Tell as opposed to Ask.