Exaggerated politeness often seems insincere, distancing or worse
Upvoted for this. The ‘or worse’ also includes making people disregard the content of what you’re trying to say because you’re signalling low-status/self-effacement so hard that it’s difficult for anyone to take you seriously
Upvoted for this. The ‘or worse’ also includes making people disregard the content of what you’re trying to say because you’re signalling low-status/self-effacement so hard that it’s difficult for anyone to take you seriously