Since short-term satiation after orgasm (the ‘refractory period’) is much less of an issue in women, it’s at least reasonable to expect that they might have far less long-term orgasm satiation as well. Which is not to say that loss of relationship energy is not a problem more broadly (the stereotype of “lesbian bed death” indicates as much!), just that we shouldn’t necessarily expect orgasms to be the causal link in that case.
Since short-term satiation after orgasm (the ‘refractory period’) is much less of an issue in women, it’s at least reasonable to expect that they might have far less long-term orgasm satiation as well. Which is not to say that loss of relationship energy is not a problem more broadly (the stereotype of “lesbian bed death” indicates as much!), just that we shouldn’t necessarily expect orgasms to be the causal link in that case.