Since short-term satiation after orgasm (the ‘refractory period’) is much less of an issue in women, it’s at least reasonable to expect that they might have far less long-term orgasm satiation as well. Which is not to say that loss of relationship energy is not a problem more broadly (the stereotype of “lesbian bed death” indicates as much!), just that we shouldn’t necessarily expect orgasms to be the causal link in that case.
So, your hypothesis is only about men? Are you proposing that only women should have orgasms?
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Since short-term satiation after orgasm (the ‘refractory period’) is much less of an issue in women, it’s at least reasonable to expect that they might have far less long-term orgasm satiation as well. Which is not to say that loss of relationship energy is not a problem more broadly (the stereotype of “lesbian bed death” indicates as much!), just that we shouldn’t necessarily expect orgasms to be the causal link in that case.