Yes, at this point I’d have to agree that it’s an aesthetic preference, neither right nor wrong, though I think it’s a preference with potential dangerous consequences, on which point it seems we’ve also come to some sort of agreement. That said, I appreciate that you’ve given my view consideration; some of my comments may have come off as less tactful than I intended, and you and other commenters have been quite patient.
By the way, thank you for the link; as it happens, reading the post and some of the comments has cemented my views on rituals and group bonding. I think this comment by JenniferRM (and her longer comment just downthread) is very insightful and quite appropriate to the current discussion.
ETA: Another data point for the “some people don’t like this sort of thing” claim.
Yes, at this point I’d have to agree that it’s an aesthetic preference, neither right nor wrong, though I think it’s a preference with potential dangerous consequences, on which point it seems we’ve also come to some sort of agreement. That said, I appreciate that you’ve given my view consideration; some of my comments may have come off as less tactful than I intended, and you and other commenters have been quite patient.
By the way, thank you for the link; as it happens, reading the post and some of the comments has cemented my views on rituals and group bonding. I think this comment by JenniferRM (and her longer comment just downthread) is very insightful and quite appropriate to the current discussion.
ETA: Another data point for the “some people don’t like this sort of thing” claim.