I like the feeling of doing things together. We can probably both think of evolutionary and neurological reasons why humans enjoy group activities. Ultimately, like I said, I think it boils down to an aesthetic preference that isn’t right or wrong.
I see your point about not letting this become a social pressure on people who don’t want to participate, and I’ll try to be mindful of this.
Yes, at this point I’d have to agree that it’s an aesthetic preference, neither right nor wrong, though I think it’s a preference with potential dangerous consequences, on which point it seems we’ve also come to some sort of agreement. That said, I appreciate that you’ve given my view consideration; some of my comments may have come off as less tactful than I intended, and you and other commenters have been quite patient.
By the way, thank you for the link; as it happens, reading the post and some of the comments has cemented my views on rituals and group bonding. I think this comment by JenniferRM (and her longer comment just downthread) is very insightful and quite appropriate to the current discussion.
ETA: Another data point for the “some people don’t like this sort of thing” claim.
I like the feeling of doing things together. We can probably both think of evolutionary and neurological reasons why humans enjoy group activities. Ultimately, like I said, I think it boils down to an aesthetic preference that isn’t right or wrong.
I see your point about not letting this become a social pressure on people who don’t want to participate, and I’ll try to be mindful of this.
Yes, at this point I’d have to agree that it’s an aesthetic preference, neither right nor wrong, though I think it’s a preference with potential dangerous consequences, on which point it seems we’ve also come to some sort of agreement. That said, I appreciate that you’ve given my view consideration; some of my comments may have come off as less tactful than I intended, and you and other commenters have been quite patient.
By the way, thank you for the link; as it happens, reading the post and some of the comments has cemented my views on rituals and group bonding. I think this comment by JenniferRM (and her longer comment just downthread) is very insightful and quite appropriate to the current discussion.
ETA: Another data point for the “some people don’t like this sort of thing” claim.