one-on-one cooking tutoring (get s/o who’s good at household cooking to teach you to shop, knife skills, expand recipe repertoire)
take a level in badassery (lockpicking lesson, car repair, archery class—anything that will give you a frisson of pleasure when you think—yeah, I know how to X)
trip to unusual/disciplined environment (Ignatian retreat, etc)
throw strange, themed party that your friends will remember and discuss for a long time
fix whatever egronomic thing annoys you most, at present (standing desk?)
pay s/o to reorganize messy thing in way that makes it easier for you to maintain the tidiness going forward w/o ugh of doing the initial clean-up yourself
Tutoring is a general one. I was just talking to somebody the other day who independently was excited by the idea of paying a PhD student to privately tutor them in advanced math.
Might seem trivial, but what’s a good way to find someone willing to teach cooking skills? Asking friends until you get a hit? Posting on Craigslist or Reddit? I’d like to learn to cook better, but I don’t know anyone who would be willing to tutor me off-hand.
You can self-teach. I guess it depends on your confidence with knives, but watch videos of how to do knife work, and don’t go totally overboard trying to chop as fast as a professional chef, as fingers are valuable. Do the motion the way they do it, but slowly enough to be sure you will not hurt yourself. As you gain practice, you may feel comfortable naturally speeding up.
As for cooking and baking. Look up recipe on the internet. Do exactly what the recipe says. Do you not know what a step means or how to do it? Google it, watch videos, try to follow the directions as precisely as possible, and see if the result is any good. If the recipe is good and you follow the directions, you’ll get something good. Cooking, especially baking, is like science, just follow the directions, and you can get close to the desired outcome.
If you’re kind of a natural you can learn to spot problems with recipes before you make them, or improvise your own flavors and make them better, if you’re not, that’s ok. There are a lot of techniques you can learn but dipping your toes into cooking is not that hard, and a non professional can make excellent meals, it just takes more time. If you find a big passion for it then there’s a whole world of resources about how to do things out there :)
Look to see if there are food or cooking clubs in your area—a lot of times members will have information classes or get togethers.
I also had a great experience taking some classes in turkish cooking at a turkish cultural center where I used to live. Here’s a link if you live near west haven ct:
Yup, I think those are good approaches. There are also franchise-y places like CulinAerie that will offer classes. But I think craigslist/friends might be best if you want someone to tailor to your needs/experience. Also worth finding out wherever restaurant line cooks tend to look for normal job postings and trying to place an ad there.
Having basic car repair skills is an amazingly empowering thing. Pick up an aftermarket guide ($25-30) for your car and watch some youtube videos for specific repairs.
I would say that for some basic stuff, you probably will save money. The two things I’ve done that saved money even accounting for time spent (because they were easy to do but are sort of expensive to have a mechanic do) included changing my spark plugs and replacing the motor for a window.
I bought my repair book speculatively. Subsequently, as repairs became necessary I googled to get a feel for what the normal costs for that repair were and the cost for the parts. Then I looked at my book to see how much sense the instructions made to me and decided from there whether I thought I could get the job done for less time than the price difference would be worth, roughly speaking. I didn’t learn anything new to make the estimate and my only previous automotive repair experience was having changed my oil once or twice with my Dad as a teen. I did not think of myself as mechanically inclined at all, but had been working with a group of mechanical engineers for a few years which gave me the confidence that if I broke something while learning, I could buy a replacement part or, worst case, pay an expert to fix my error.
Agree. For some people it may be useful to spend the money on gifts, if they can see an increase in quality of relationship which is to them important.
one-on-one cooking tutoring (get s/o who’s good at household cooking to teach you to shop, knife skills, expand recipe repertoire)
take a level in badassery (lockpicking lesson, car repair, archery class—anything that will give you a frisson of pleasure when you think—yeah, I know how to X)
trip to unusual/disciplined environment (Ignatian retreat, etc)
throw strange, themed party that your friends will remember and discuss for a long time
fix whatever egronomic thing annoys you most, at present (standing desk?)
pay s/o to reorganize messy thing in way that makes it easier for you to maintain the tidiness going forward w/o ugh of doing the initial clean-up yourself
Tutoring is a general one. I was just talking to somebody the other day who independently was excited by the idea of paying a PhD student to privately tutor them in advanced math.
Might seem trivial, but what’s a good way to find someone willing to teach cooking skills? Asking friends until you get a hit? Posting on Craigslist or Reddit? I’d like to learn to cook better, but I don’t know anyone who would be willing to tutor me off-hand.
You can self-teach. I guess it depends on your confidence with knives, but watch videos of how to do knife work, and don’t go totally overboard trying to chop as fast as a professional chef, as fingers are valuable. Do the motion the way they do it, but slowly enough to be sure you will not hurt yourself. As you gain practice, you may feel comfortable naturally speeding up.
As for cooking and baking. Look up recipe on the internet. Do exactly what the recipe says. Do you not know what a step means or how to do it? Google it, watch videos, try to follow the directions as precisely as possible, and see if the result is any good. If the recipe is good and you follow the directions, you’ll get something good. Cooking, especially baking, is like science, just follow the directions, and you can get close to the desired outcome.
If you’re kind of a natural you can learn to spot problems with recipes before you make them, or improvise your own flavors and make them better, if you’re not, that’s ok. There are a lot of techniques you can learn but dipping your toes into cooking is not that hard, and a non professional can make excellent meals, it just takes more time. If you find a big passion for it then there’s a whole world of resources about how to do things out there :)
Look to see if there are food or cooking clubs in your area—a lot of times members will have information classes or get togethers.
I also had a great experience taking some classes in turkish cooking at a turkish cultural center where I used to live. Here’s a link if you live near west haven ct:
http://turkishculturalcenterct.com/turkish-cooking-classes-go-ahead-full-speed/
I grabbed a 3 year old item because that’s me rolling out some bread dough in the picture, but they still do these.
If you live anywhere near a decent sized city or college town, there’s a good chance that “cooking classes ” will turn up something good.
Yup, I think those are good approaches. There are also franchise-y places like CulinAerie that will offer classes. But I think craigslist/friends might be best if you want someone to tailor to your needs/experience. Also worth finding out wherever restaurant line cooks tend to look for normal job postings and trying to place an ad there.
Having basic car repair skills is an amazingly empowering thing. Pick up an aftermarket guide ($25-30) for your car and watch some youtube videos for specific repairs.
Is the time-investment more cost-effective than just paying a specialist?
And if so—for what kinds of repairs do you get the most benefit?
I would say that for some basic stuff, you probably will save money. The two things I’ve done that saved money even accounting for time spent (because they were easy to do but are sort of expensive to have a mechanic do) included changing my spark plugs and replacing the motor for a window.
How much incidental (non-helpful) knowledge must you learn in order to know what are the things that are worthwhile and what are not?
I bought my repair book speculatively. Subsequently, as repairs became necessary I googled to get a feel for what the normal costs for that repair were and the cost for the parts. Then I looked at my book to see how much sense the instructions made to me and decided from there whether I thought I could get the job done for less time than the price difference would be worth, roughly speaking. I didn’t learn anything new to make the estimate and my only previous automotive repair experience was having changed my oil once or twice with my Dad as a teen. I did not think of myself as mechanically inclined at all, but had been working with a group of mechanical engineers for a few years which gave me the confidence that if I broke something while learning, I could buy a replacement part or, worst case, pay an expert to fix my error.
Agree. For some people it may be useful to spend the money on gifts, if they can see an increase in quality of relationship which is to them important.