I’m not claiming any such representation or authority. They’re my people only in the sense that all of us happen to be guys who like guys; they’re the group of people I belong to. I’m not even claiming martyrdom, because (not many) of these shitty things have explicitly happened to me. I’m only stating my own (and no one else’s) prior for how interactions between self-identified Christians and gay people tend to turn out.
The point has been missed. Deep breath, paper-machine.
Nearly any viewpoint is capable of and has done cruel things to others. No reason to unnecessarilly highlight this fact and dramatize the Party of Suffering. This was an intro thread by a newcomer—not a reason to point to you and “your” people. They can speak for themselves.
To the extent that you’re saying that the whole topic of Christian/queer relations was inappropriate for an intro thread, I would prefer you’d just said that. I might even agree with you, though I didn’t find paper-machine’s initial comment especially problematic.
To the extent that you’re saying that paper-machine should not treat the prior poor treatment of members of a group they belong to, by members of a group Y belongs to, as evidence of their likely poor treatment by Y, I simply disagree. It may not be especially strong evidence, but it’s also far from trivial.
And all the stuff about martyrdom and Parties of Suffering and who gets to say what for whom seems like a complete distraction.
Why berate him for doing just that, then? He’s expressing his prior: members of a reference class he belongs to are often singled out for mistreatment by members of a reference class that his interlocutor claims membership with. He does not appear to believe himself Ambassador of All The Gay Men, based on what he’s actually saying, nor to treat that class-membership as some kind of ontological primitive.
Though it’s made more impressive when you realize that the comment you respond to, and its grandparent, are the user’s only two comments, and they average 30 karma each. That’s a beautiful piece of market timing!
“Only one of those is really a reason for me to be nervous, and that’s because Christianity has done some pretty shitty things to my people.”
Oh, don’t be such a martyr. “My people...” please. You do not represent “your people” and you aren’t their authority.
Whoa, calm down.
I’m not claiming any such representation or authority. They’re my people only in the sense that all of us happen to be guys who like guys; they’re the group of people I belong to. I’m not even claiming martyrdom, because (not many) of these shitty things have explicitly happened to me. I’m only stating my own (and no one else’s) prior for how interactions between self-identified Christians and gay people tend to turn out.
The point has been missed. Deep breath, paper-machine.
Nearly any viewpoint is capable of and has done cruel things to others. No reason to unnecessarilly highlight this fact and dramatize the Party of Suffering. This was an intro thread by a newcomer—not a reason to point to you and “your” people. They can speak for themselves.
To the extent that you’re saying that the whole topic of Christian/queer relations was inappropriate for an intro thread, I would prefer you’d just said that. I might even agree with you, though I didn’t find paper-machine’s initial comment especially problematic.
To the extent that you’re saying that paper-machine should not treat the prior poor treatment of members of a group they belong to, by members of a group Y belongs to, as evidence of their likely poor treatment by Y, I simply disagree. It may not be especially strong evidence, but it’s also far from trivial.
And all the stuff about martyrdom and Parties of Suffering and who gets to say what for whom seems like a complete distraction.
Why berate him for doing just that, then? He’s expressing his prior: members of a reference class he belongs to are often singled out for mistreatment by members of a reference class that his interlocutor claims membership with. He does not appear to believe himself Ambassador of All The Gay Men, based on what he’s actually saying, nor to treat that class-membership as some kind of ontological primitive.
Unless, of course, it’s in an intro thread by a newcomer. ;)
I wonder how this comment got 7 upvotes in 9 minutes.
EDIT: Probably the same way this comment got 7 upvotes in 6 minutes.
LW has a bunch of bored Bayesians on Mondays. Same thing happened to your score, mate.
Though it’s made more impressive when you realize that the comment you respond to, and its grandparent, are the user’s only two comments, and they average 30 karma each. That’s a beautiful piece of market timing!
Still, I didn’t get who “my people” referred to (your fellow citizens?). “To us gay people” would have been clearer IMO.