Times in my life I’ve been single I found myself attracted to about one person per year. This might make sense if my hind brain thinks I’m living in a tribe or something.
Same. It would take incredible effort to find one person I reasonably connect with each year.
So much of this is just location. I’ve met 100s of people over the last few years. Nearly all either over 40 with kids, or those kids. I’ve connected with many, maybe 10%, on a pretty good level. That doesn’t help with dating at all.
I just really, really don’t want it to be the case that he only answer is: move to NY, SF, or Seattle, becuase I really like it here.
I’m a counter datapoint.
Times in my life I’ve been single I found myself attracted to about one person per year. This might make sense if my hind brain thinks I’m living in a tribe or something.
Same. It would take incredible effort to find one person I reasonably connect with each year.
So much of this is just location. I’ve met 100s of people over the last few years. Nearly all either over 40 with kids, or those kids. I’ve connected with many, maybe 10%, on a pretty good level. That doesn’t help with dating at all.
I just really, really don’t want it to be the case that he only answer is: move to NY, SF, or Seattle, becuase I really like it here.