Why do you find it hard to meet like-minded people? Have you tried meetup.com? The only solution to not having a group of people you like is to meet more people. You’re certainly not lacking for options. It sounds like you just need a better searching method.
I like having reasonable suggestions—at the very least it’s a good idea to consider these things if I haven’t tried them before.
I don’t know why you seem to think it would be easy to find like-minded people, though. Inferential distance?
That seems to be hard by default, unless you’re living in an area with a high density of like-minded people.
Anyway, I am familiar with meetup.com. I have some meetups I could potentially participate in, though they seem to be mostly for people who want to socialize rather than specific groups for things I am interested in.
And simply meeting people at random seems like a poor way for me to try and find like-minded people. I might do that anyway for the social experience, but it seems to be a rather low return-on-investment strategy.
Random has to generally be deliberately planned for. Any kind of search is likely to be non-random, and there are multiple methods for increasing filtering even before you meet the person. A chess club will result in very different encounters than a soccer team. You could also change your culling methods when evaluating people to improve hits. It’s possible that you’re over or under filtering in casual encounters or that your search parameters are poorly tuned. Studying personality types can help with that. Still, there’s nothing better than just to increase your number of interactions.
Why do you find it hard to meet like-minded people? Have you tried meetup.com?
I do some meetup groups available nearby (though I’d have to commute for quite a bit). There’s isn’t much choice of what kind of people I can meet via meetup.com.
The base rate for people I would consider like-minded is really low, so trying to meet people randomly (or by applying a simple filter) seems like a low-value strategy.
The only solution to not having a group of people you like is to meet more people.
That doesn’t automatically imply it is optimal or even reasonable for me to try and maximize the amount of people I meet short-term.
You’re certainly not lacking for options.
I think everyone has options. That doesn’t mean that the options are viable.
I do also think it’s a good idea to go over the possible strategies I might be using.
I’m not seeing any options that I’m willing to use immediately. So I think the best thing I can do right now is simply to think more about this—and see if I can find a reasonable way around the objections to have to using these options, or if I can find new options I like better.
Why do you find it hard to meet like-minded people? Have you tried meetup.com? The only solution to not having a group of people you like is to meet more people. You’re certainly not lacking for options. It sounds like you just need a better searching method.
I like having reasonable suggestions—at the very least it’s a good idea to consider these things if I haven’t tried them before.
I don’t know why you seem to think it would be easy to find like-minded people, though. Inferential distance?
That seems to be hard by default, unless you’re living in an area with a high density of like-minded people.
Anyway, I am familiar with meetup.com. I have some meetups I could potentially participate in, though they seem to be mostly for people who want to socialize rather than specific groups for things I am interested in.
And simply meeting people at random seems like a poor way for me to try and find like-minded people. I might do that anyway for the social experience, but it seems to be a rather low return-on-investment strategy.
Random has to generally be deliberately planned for. Any kind of search is likely to be non-random, and there are multiple methods for increasing filtering even before you meet the person. A chess club will result in very different encounters than a soccer team. You could also change your culling methods when evaluating people to improve hits. It’s possible that you’re over or under filtering in casual encounters or that your search parameters are poorly tuned. Studying personality types can help with that. Still, there’s nothing better than just to increase your number of interactions.
What are you interested in?
I do some meetup groups available nearby (though I’d have to commute for quite a bit). There’s isn’t much choice of what kind of people I can meet via meetup.com.
The base rate for people I would consider like-minded is really low, so trying to meet people randomly (or by applying a simple filter) seems like a low-value strategy.
That doesn’t automatically imply it is optimal or even reasonable for me to try and maximize the amount of people I meet short-term.
I think everyone has options. That doesn’t mean that the options are viable.
I do also think it’s a good idea to go over the possible strategies I might be using.
I’m not seeing any options that I’m willing to use immediately. So I think the best thing I can do right now is simply to think more about this—and see if I can find a reasonable way around the objections to have to using these options, or if I can find new options I like better.