If you were feeling uncharitable, you could say that the “lack of status regulation emotions” thing is yet another concept in a long line of concepts that already had names before Eliezer/someone independently discovers them and proceeds to give them a new LW name.
you could say that the “lack of status regulation emotions” thing [...] already had names [...]
It’s sillier than that. It’s attempting to invent a new, hitherto undescribed emotion to explain behavior that’s covered perfectly well by the ordinary vocabulary of social competence, which includes for example words like “tact”. There are also words to describe neurological deviations resulting among other things in a pathological lack of tact, but they too have little to do with emotion.
(Strictly speaking, there are status-regulation emotions, and they are called things like shame and envy. But that clearly isn’t what Eliezer was talking about.)
But what Eliezer is describing is not a “new, hitherto undescribed emotion”, it’s really just a chronic, low-intensity activation of well-known emotional states like shame and embarrassment. Many people nowadays believe that ‘microaggressions’ exist and are a fairly big factor in folks’ self-esteem and even their ordinary functioning. But that too used to be a “new, undescribed phenomenon”! So why would we want to reject what Eliezer calls “status regulation” which is even less radical, being just a minor twist on what was previously known?
In the Facebook post that sparked this, Mysterious Emotion X is clearly described in terms of other-regulation: a “status slapdown emotion”. Shame and embarrassment, chronic and low-grade or otherwise, are directed at self-regulation, so they aren’t a good fit. Envy (and “a sense that someone else has something that I deserve more”, which sounds to me like resentment) is specifically excluded, so it’s not that either.
I’m pretty skeptical of the microaggression model too, but this isn’t the place to be talking about that, if there exists such a place.
Well, same difference really. An other-regarding ‘status slapdown’ emotion can be described fairly easily as a low-intensity mixture of outrage and contempt, both of which are well-known emotions and not “undescribed” at all. It could be most pithily characterized as the counter emotion to loyalty or devotion, which involves an attribution of higher status based on social roles or norms.
I don’t think either of those work. The situation in which this applies, according to Eliezer, is quite specific: another person makes a status claim which you feel is undeserved, so you feel Mysterious Emotion X toward them. It’s neither chronic nor low-grade: the context here was of HJPEV schooling his teachers and the violently poor reception that met among some readers of HPMOR. (For what it’s worth, I didn’t mind… but I was once the iniquitous little shit that Harry’s being. I expect these readers are identifying with McGonagall instead.) He’s also pretty clear about believing this to be outside the generally accepted array of human emotions: he mentions envy, hate, and resentment among others as things which this is not, which pretty much covers the bases in context.
More than the specific attribution, though, it’s the gee-whiz tone and intimation of originality that rubs me the wrong way. If he’d described it in terms of well-known emotions or even suggested that you could, my objection would evaporate. But he didn’t.
I don’t think that the thing Eliezer called “lack of status regulation emotions” that makes some people angry when they read how Harry in HPMOR interacts with teachers is what commonly called ego or lack of ego.
Fair enough. “Lack of status regulation emotions” is a bit more narrow, perhaps? Either way I see them as very similar concepts, and in the context of HPMOR readers’ anger especially so.
If someone who is high status lacks status regulation emotions they will be nice to a person with low status who seeks help from them and treats them as an equal.
That’s the opposite behavior of what’s commonly called having an ego.
More generally, someone who lacks status-regulating emotions won’t have a fragile, hypersensitive ego, i.e. what most people (though by no means all) usually mean by “having a massive ego” or an “ego problem”. Note that by this definition, many people whose self-esteem is founded in clear and verifiable achievements would be said to “lack status-regulating emotions”. In many circumstances, it’s not viewed as a negative trait.
I’ve had experience with what I think is the same thing that Eliezer called “lack of status regulation emotions”, and I do think it’s more than “narcissisticly big ego” and more than “unmotivated and unfortunate status blindness”.
It’s not that I couldn’t see the normal status levels. It’s just that I thought they were stupid and irrelevant (hah!) so I just went off my own internal status values. If you could back up your arguments, you had my respect. If you couldn’t and got defensive instead, you didn’t. And I wasn’t gonna pretend to respect someone just because everyone else thought I was out of line. Because.… well, they’re wrong. And I was totally unaware of this at the time because it was just baked into the background of how I saw things.
Good things did come of it, but I definitely stepped on toes, and in those cases it definitely came off like “big ego”.
And in a sense it was, just not in the straightforwardly narcissistic “I’m smarter than you so I don’t have to treat you with respect” way. Just in the “I’m smarter at the ‘not acting smarter than I am’ game, and that is why I don’t have to treat you with respect” way, which, although better, isn’t all that laudable either.
Ah, if the status regulation emotions go both ways, perhaps.
But Eliezer seemed to be referring to how people got angry at how Harry didn’t treat McGonagall in a manner befitting her higher status—this can be attributed to lack of status regulation emotions on the part of Harry, or Harry having a massive ego.
Harry also doesn’t have respect due to status regulation but that’s not enough to get someone reading the story angry. I personally found it quite funny. But then I also don’t put much value on that kind of status. It’s the kind of people with a strong status related emotions who get annoyed by the story.
If someone who is high status lacks status regulation emotions they will be nice to a person with low status who seeks help from them and treats them as an equal.
This is a nice differentiation that I can relate to well. I also do not seem to possess status regulating emotions either (at least enough to notice myself). And I do treat all people the same (mostly cheritable) independent of their status. Actually I discovered the concept of status quite late (Ayla and the Clan of the Cave Bear if I remember right) and couldn’t make sense of it for quite some time.
It’s not status blindness, it’s ego.
You could call it that, yeah.
If you were feeling uncharitable, you could say that the “lack of status regulation emotions” thing is yet another concept in a long line of concepts that already had names before Eliezer/someone independently discovers them and proceeds to give them a new LW name.
It’s sillier than that. It’s attempting to invent a new, hitherto undescribed emotion to explain behavior that’s covered perfectly well by the ordinary vocabulary of social competence, which includes for example words like “tact”. There are also words to describe neurological deviations resulting among other things in a pathological lack of tact, but they too have little to do with emotion.
(Strictly speaking, there are status-regulation emotions, and they are called things like shame and envy. But that clearly isn’t what Eliezer was talking about.)
But what Eliezer is describing is not a “new, hitherto undescribed emotion”, it’s really just a chronic, low-intensity activation of well-known emotional states like shame and embarrassment. Many people nowadays believe that ‘microaggressions’ exist and are a fairly big factor in folks’ self-esteem and even their ordinary functioning. But that too used to be a “new, undescribed phenomenon”! So why would we want to reject what Eliezer calls “status regulation” which is even less radical, being just a minor twist on what was previously known?
In the Facebook post that sparked this, Mysterious Emotion X is clearly described in terms of other-regulation: a “status slapdown emotion”. Shame and embarrassment, chronic and low-grade or otherwise, are directed at self-regulation, so they aren’t a good fit. Envy (and “a sense that someone else has something that I deserve more”, which sounds to me like resentment) is specifically excluded, so it’s not that either.
I’m pretty skeptical of the microaggression model too, but this isn’t the place to be talking about that, if there exists such a place.
Well, same difference really. An other-regarding ‘status slapdown’ emotion can be described fairly easily as a low-intensity mixture of outrage and contempt, both of which are well-known emotions and not “undescribed” at all. It could be most pithily characterized as the counter emotion to loyalty or devotion, which involves an attribution of higher status based on social roles or norms.
I don’t think either of those work. The situation in which this applies, according to Eliezer, is quite specific: another person makes a status claim which you feel is undeserved, so you feel Mysterious Emotion X toward them. It’s neither chronic nor low-grade: the context here was of HJPEV schooling his teachers and the violently poor reception that met among some readers of HPMOR. (For what it’s worth, I didn’t mind… but I was once the iniquitous little shit that Harry’s being. I expect these readers are identifying with McGonagall instead.) He’s also pretty clear about believing this to be outside the generally accepted array of human emotions: he mentions envy, hate, and resentment among others as things which this is not, which pretty much covers the bases in context.
More than the specific attribution, though, it’s the gee-whiz tone and intimation of originality that rubs me the wrong way. If he’d described it in terms of well-known emotions or even suggested that you could, my objection would evaporate. But he didn’t.
I don’t think that the thing Eliezer called “lack of status regulation emotions” that makes some people angry when they read how Harry in HPMOR interacts with teachers is what commonly called ego or lack of ego.
Fair enough. “Lack of status regulation emotions” is a bit more narrow, perhaps? Either way I see them as very similar concepts, and in the context of HPMOR readers’ anger especially so.
If someone who is high status lacks status regulation emotions they will be nice to a person with low status who seeks help from them and treats them as an equal.
That’s the opposite behavior of what’s commonly called having an ego.
More generally, someone who lacks status-regulating emotions won’t have a fragile, hypersensitive ego, i.e. what most people (though by no means all) usually mean by “having a massive ego” or an “ego problem”. Note that by this definition, many people whose self-esteem is founded in clear and verifiable achievements would be said to “lack status-regulating emotions”. In many circumstances, it’s not viewed as a negative trait.
I’ve had experience with what I think is the same thing that Eliezer called “lack of status regulation emotions”, and I do think it’s more than “narcissisticly big ego” and more than “unmotivated and unfortunate status blindness”.
It’s not that I couldn’t see the normal status levels. It’s just that I thought they were stupid and irrelevant (hah!) so I just went off my own internal status values. If you could back up your arguments, you had my respect. If you couldn’t and got defensive instead, you didn’t. And I wasn’t gonna pretend to respect someone just because everyone else thought I was out of line. Because.… well, they’re wrong. And I was totally unaware of this at the time because it was just baked into the background of how I saw things.
Good things did come of it, but I definitely stepped on toes, and in those cases it definitely came off like “big ego”.
And in a sense it was, just not in the straightforwardly narcissistic “I’m smarter than you so I don’t have to treat you with respect” way. Just in the “I’m smarter at the ‘not acting smarter than I am’ game, and that is why I don’t have to treat you with respect” way, which, although better, isn’t all that laudable either.
Ah, if the status regulation emotions go both ways, perhaps.
But Eliezer seemed to be referring to how people got angry at how Harry didn’t treat McGonagall in a manner befitting her higher status—this can be attributed to lack of status regulation emotions on the part of Harry, or Harry having a massive ego.
Harry also doesn’t have respect due to status regulation but that’s not enough to get someone reading the story angry. I personally found it quite funny. But then I also don’t put much value on that kind of status. It’s the kind of people with a strong status related emotions who get annoyed by the story.
This is a nice differentiation that I can relate to well. I also do not seem to possess status regulating emotions either (at least enough to notice myself). And I do treat all people the same (mostly cheritable) independent of their status. Actually I discovered the concept of status quite late (Ayla and the Clan of the Cave Bear if I remember right) and couldn’t make sense of it for quite some time.
Status blindness is a disability, pride is a mortal sin.
:)