I think there’s also more nuances to this, where the truth/falsity of the love doesn’t need to be based on the extent of the attraction, but also the “shape” of the attraction. I gave some examples an earlier time it came up:
A woman is on a date with a man, which she enjoys until she sees that his home is a dump.
A teenager has a crush on a celebrity, with elaborate daydreams about how cool the celebrity is, not realizing how much of this is a facade created for entertainment.
A man visits a prostitute and feels excited as he causes her to orgasm, not realizing that she fakes it for the business.
I think there’s also more nuances to this, where the truth/falsity of the love doesn’t need to be based on the extent of the attraction, but also the “shape” of the attraction. I gave some examples an earlier time it came up: