My experience: dating is just a wrong way to come to relationship. I have had several relationships and never through proper dating. I read “Mate” and it didn’t help.
Thanks! Do you have an analogous confusion about why people are leaving metaphorical $20 bills on the ground? (E.g. you wonder why people are wasting all their time on Tinder instead of hanging out with their friends or whatever you think is more effective.) Or do you think that people are behaving in a pretty optimal manner?
Dating is over-advertise as an effective way of getting a GF, as it helps cafes, flowers sellers, girls themselves etc. In my experience, I’ve got GFs in two ways:
1) Relation evolved from friendship on a course of years.
2) I lived my own life, a girl fall in love at me based her own internal processes, she showed interest, I responded and we started dating.
So, the secret is: live your own interesting life, and if a girl falls in love at you, start dating her. But stopped chasing these 9th and 10th!
My experience: dating is just a wrong way to come to relationship. I have had several relationships and never through proper dating. I read “Mate” and it didn’t help.
Totally agree. “Dating” is an artificial concept.
Meeting lots of people, spending time with anyone you click with, being honest about what you want and who you are (confidence) …
can work wonders to finding a compatible mate.
How is that not dating? What do you mean by dating?
Thanks! Do you have an analogous confusion about why people are leaving metaphorical $20 bills on the ground? (E.g. you wonder why people are wasting all their time on Tinder instead of hanging out with their friends or whatever you think is more effective.) Or do you think that people are behaving in a pretty optimal manner?
Dating is over-advertise as an effective way of getting a GF, as it helps cafes, flowers sellers, girls themselves etc. In my experience, I’ve got GFs in two ways:
1) Relation evolved from friendship on a course of years.
2) I lived my own life, a girl fall in love at me based her own internal processes, she showed interest, I responded and we started dating.
So, the secret is: live your own interesting life, and if a girl falls in love at you, start dating her. But stopped chasing these 9th and 10th!