I don’t really think nurture culture actually demands or implies people modelling each other mind well.
If they could make such a model it’d be never a problem to say “you are completely wrong” and make your partner understand it’s not an offense.
I think it’s quite the opposite, nurture culture reduces the cost of the possible misunderstanding so you have a lot of tries to explain and listen.
While at combat culture you can mistake real agression for discussion or look agressive to others if you didn’t read the situation.
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I don’t really think nurture culture actually demands or implies people modelling each other mind well.
If they could make such a model it’d be never a problem to say “you are completely wrong” and make your partner understand it’s not an offense.
I think it’s quite the opposite, nurture culture reduces the cost of the possible misunderstanding so you have a lot of tries to explain and listen.
While at combat culture you can mistake real agression for discussion or look agressive to others if you didn’t read the situation.