Eliezer, are you familiar with Carol Dweck’s research on intelligence, or has that corner of psychology eluded you? It matches up very closely with what you say here about maturity. Dweck says: some people (like your parents on maturity) have an “entity theory” of intelligence—they think of it as something fixed that you either have or you don’t—while others (like you on maturity) have an “incremental theory”—they think of it as continually developing. Incremental theorists tend to learn better and be more eager to face challenges, while entity theorists are more threatened by challenges and care more about signaling that they have intelligence. More here.
Entity views may be a common source of bias, with intelligence and other qualities that people value.
This topic was posted at Less Wrong (by Phil Goetz), but apparently Eliezer thought it would fit better here.
If the goal is to encourage aid to become more effective and evidence-based, I don’t think that shouting “Stop the aid!” will help. Setting yourself up in opposition to aid will just make the pro-aid team rally together against you, and in a head-to-head matchup the anti-aid side is at a huge disadvantage in winning over public opinion and celebrity culture (pro-aid forces have better ties to establishment power, emotions, common sense, and money). At worst, the pro-aid side will increasingly to see talk of logic, evidence, and counterproductive charity as the other side’s buzzwords, or part of the other side’s agenda. We have a better chance at getting more effective aid if the people arguing for more reasonable, rigorously-evaluated aid demonstrate that they’re on the same side (the pro-helping side) by talking about (and emphasizing) what does work. Ideally, they’d even get involved to improve aid programs (like the MIT Poverty Action Lab), raise money for effective charity (like GiveWell), or run their own programs.
(Disclosure: I may be influenced by the fact that I think aid to Africa has been doing more good than harm, and that our best hope is to make incremental improvements and give more.)