Wow, excellent post!
For the floating ball problem, I had the same intuition as Bucky: A floating object will displace its own weight in water, so we can replace the ball with an amount of water that exactly fills in the hole created by the submerged part of the ball. So the box is balanced no matter where you move the ball to.
“Thinking Physics” by Epstein is an excellent source for puzzles like this, where you identify the relevant physical principles to give qualitative answers as opposed to doing tedious calculations.
Compare Helen Keller with Ildefonso who was deaf and mute, and didn’t learn language until age 27:
″ But the interesting thing that he said is that he can’t even think that way anymore. (Music.) He said he can’t think the way he used to think and when I pushed him to ask about what it was like to be languageless, the closest he ever came to any kind of an answer was exactly that. I don’t know, I don’t remember. I think differently now. ”—Radiolab episode on words