I learned the hard way that epigenetics is too new a field to get a good understanding by reading the textbook, because being 13 years out of date is in fact making a big difference.
Skill-issue. There is a free introductory e-textbook on epigenetics on Amazon from 2021 that I somehow completely missed.
One of the first things that (shy?) people use to gauge each other’s interests before or instead of talking about anything explicit is eye contact. So I think that wearing your glasses puts you at a disadvantage unless you take them off when you are flirting. I’m not sure why you’re wearing them, but taking them off in itself could be a flirty move. I am not particularly good at flirting. But I remember in 9th grade a girl I had flirted with for like half an hour at an event via eye contact. We didn’t exchange more than ~3 sentences in person (there were no innuendos). Then she called me later that same day, asking me out explicitly if I wanted to be her boyfriend.