There is a helpful web page on the probability that cryonics will work.
There are also some useful facts at the Alcor Scientists’ Cryonics FAQ.
The neuroscientist might wish to pay attention to the answer to “Q: Can a brain stop working without losing information?” The referenced article by Mayford, Siegelbaum, and Kandel should be particularly helpful.
Cryonics likely has a probability of success of ~85%, as estimated at Will Cryonics Work?. Lower probability estimates are either unsupported, or supported by arguments with obvious errors. Cryonics deniers sometimes display gross breakdowns in their rational functions, as illustrated by a remarkable quote by Kenneth Storey.
Because deciding against cryonics is a form of suicide, it is selfish for the same reason that suicide is selfish: it causes pain and grief for the survivors, who loved the person who committed cryocide.
Ralph