I think the problem is that you are trying to say too much and have ended up with a post that says nothing of any value. your first and third paragraphs are demonstrably false, which is why I ignored them. in the second paragraph you literally said: “If they couldn’t afford more, then they already made a mistake.” I don’t see that as being susceptible to nuance.
thank you.
I have already replied once but my post seems to have been deleted so I will try again.
I am unable to detect any nuance in your post. perhaps it would be simpler if you were to explicitly say exactly what you mean.
thank you.