Zizek is quite a prolific writer, and so I hence hope you’ll forgive me for linking to a book that I haven’t myself read, but this book appears to be the one which is most geared towards the question at hand (especially given that it shares its name with Zizek’s talk).
As I side note, I must admit that I do completely understand the frustration that comes with people constantly posting videos like this in an attempt to justify themselves, hence I can understand you posting what you did as a response to that.
I hope you enjoy it. Even if you dislike his arguments, his writing style is wonderfully unique.