I’m in the military and have strict standards of appearance with regards to hair, uniform, etc. I’ve spent most of my life believing that spending any time at all on your appearance is a waste of time, as it has no effect on your ability to get stuff done. I’ve played along with Army regs because that’s the rules, but I half-assed it a lot, because I really didn’t see the point.
Then I realized (after thinking about it for 2,000 miles of driving) that “society expects it” is actually a really good reason for doing something. A lot of social norms seem stupid and contrived, and I still kind of resent doing stupid things just because everyone else does it, but there are benefits to not being an arrogant prick who’s always fighting the standard.
Now I’m going to go spend 10 minutes preparing my uniform, and I don’t feel bitter about it at all.
Also, I got tired of packing everything up and then not being able to find anything for a couple weeks. So I wrote down where I packed everything. Why did it take me an entire year to think of that?
Pillage then burn!
More seriously, the things you don’t want to do right now are probably the things that you should be doing. Works for me.