There are many many more submissive/masochistic men in the world than there are dominant/sadistic women, so if you are a woman who feels a strong temptation to command men and inflict pain on them, and you want a large harem of men serving your every need, it will suffice to state this fact anywhere on the Internet and you will have fifty applications by the next morning.
More like, twenty sincere applications, ten trolls, five misogynists who think they can tame you, five socially inept introverts who aren’t into being a sub but will put up with it in exchange for sex because they can’t safely and legally employ a prostitute, and ten confused responses from guys who are either submissive or masochistic but not both.
Most of the personal-finance-advice industry is parasitic and/or self-deluded, and it’s generally agreed on by economic theory and experimental measurement that an index fund will deliver the best returns you can get without huge amounts of effort.
This is sorely lacking in leads to information on how to actually choose and acquire an index fund.
(In my own case, I wouldn’t mind advice to that effect. I have a large sum in savings (about $12,000), but no income or employment prospects due to an undocumented disability. What sort of index fund should I pursue?)
If you are smart and underemployed, you can very quickly check to see if you are a natural computer programmer by pulling up a page of Python source code and seeing whether it looks like it makes natural sense, and if this is the case you can teach yourself to program very quickly and get a much higher-paying job even without formal credentials.
Where are all of these alleged jobs that pay well for competence in Python?
I’ve had some success of my own with lucid dreaming. Relatively speaking.
The problem I have is that I dream so rarely that it is almost impossible to develop habits. I still manage to go lucid about half the time I do dream, and manage to go lucid without inadvertently waking myself up about half again of those times.
I don’t know if lucid dreaming has improved my rationality, but I do think that my rationality helps with the “oh, this is silly and must be a dream” reflex. There is correlation, but it is not obvious in which direction there is causation, if there is at all.
The hardest part in my experience is actually staying asleep once I go lucid. I have to very deliberately pay attention to the physicality of myself and my immediate surroundings in the dream, while ignoring any signals from my real body, or the dream will evaporate in seconds.
For me, the key to manipulating a dream was figuring out that dreams, even lucid dreams, don’t seem to run on willpower. I can will something to happen with all my might, and nothing will happen. Rather than wielding willpower, I have to wield expectation. If I expect to see something, I will. There is an exception to this that I don’t have an explanation for, though: I’m telekinetic in my dreams. All my dreams, no matter what they’re about, whether they’re lucid or not. You’d think this would make it easy to check if I’m dreaming, but I’m just so used to it that half the time it doesn’t register as strange.
Does anyone know possible causes for rarely-dreaming-at-all?