Is this a problem with our language or our culture? Has a culture / language ever been studied that didn’t suffer from this as badly?
Good question. It seems to me, that it is mostly a problem of logistics. When talking about ourselves and objects near us, it is simply easier to reduce those objects to single words. such as ‘me’.
However, strong emotions can cause us to think in feelings rather than in abstract concepts. Usually some emotional distance is required for rational debate.