Today is raining and asking “why?” is a mistake because I am already experiencing rain right now, and counterfactual me isn’t me?
It seems to me explanation is confused in such a way as to obscure decision making process of which questions are useful to consider.
Example1: Timmie gets cookies and I am glad he did even if I am dead and cant see him.
Example2: Timmie sucked into blackhole but I don’t care as I cant see him.