Instead of optimizing for attractiveness, consider optimizing for awesomeness.
I wish I had said this. All other considerations are secondary. Indeed, it’s likely that all other metrics (weight/physical shape, fashion/clothing, flirting/conversation) are merely indicators that people use to try to gauge your actual awesomeness. Optimizing for the source rather than the signals is a great move, I’d upvote your comment multiple times if I could.
I wish I had said this. All other considerations are secondary. Indeed, it’s likely that all other metrics (weight/physical shape, fashion/clothing, flirting/conversation) are merely indicators that people use to try to gauge your actual awesomeness. Optimizing for the source rather than the signals is a great move, I’d upvote your comment multiple times if I could.