Fair! Yes. I guess I mainly have issues with the tone in the article, which in turn then makes me fear there’s little empathy the other way round: i.e. it’s going too strongly in the direction dismissing all superficial care as greedy self-serving display or something, while I find the underlying motivation—however imperfect—is often kind of a nice trait, coming out of genuine care, and it’s mainly a lack of understanding (and yes, admittedly some superficiality) of the situation that creates the issue.
Fair! Yes. I guess I mainly have issues with the tone in the article, which in turn then makes me fear there’s little empathy the other way round: i.e. it’s going too strongly in the direction dismissing all superficial care as greedy self-serving display or something, while I find the underlying motivation—however imperfect—is often kind of a nice trait, coming out of genuine care, and it’s mainly a lack of understanding (and yes, admittedly some superficiality) of the situation that creates the issue.