This illustrates the problem I have with how we leave boys’ sexual development to the haphazard and just hope that they can figure it out somehow. What about the boys who can’t or don’t have these experiences and learn these skills at an appropriate age?
You certainly complain about this a lot. But do you have any suggestions of how to fix this problem?
Not sure if you are suggesting this, but I really want to discourage any “don’t draw attention to a problem unless you have a solution” bullshit. These are two separate things, and they both have value. It is nice and good if you happen to have a solution to a problem that you’ve identified, but to keep silent about a problem just because you don’t have a solution is nuts insofar as you would like for the problem to be solved someday.
There are productive ways to filter writing (writer is doing crappy analysis, propagating misinformation on purpose or through incomptence/ignorance, etc), but doing so based on “did you propose a solution” is actively harmful. Remember the “don’t jump to solutions, scope out the problem first” bit.
Given that he has been “drawing attention” to this issue more or less constantly for months, I think it is reasonable to demand he stop repeating himself and start actually developing the idea further in some actually constructive way.
I think he keeps repeating it because he cannot and he would like others to try.
I doubt it, it’s the same pattern of behavior displayed when he complains about liberal transhumanists or the media bias against cryonics. It’s a “woe is me, the world is unjust” attitude, not constructive at all. It seems to me he just wants people to commiserate with him.
You certainly complain about this a lot. But do you have any suggestions of how to fix this problem?
Not sure if you are suggesting this, but I really want to discourage any “don’t draw attention to a problem unless you have a solution” bullshit. These are two separate things, and they both have value. It is nice and good if you happen to have a solution to a problem that you’ve identified, but to keep silent about a problem just because you don’t have a solution is nuts insofar as you would like for the problem to be solved someday.
There are productive ways to filter writing (writer is doing crappy analysis, propagating misinformation on purpose or through incomptence/ignorance, etc), but doing so based on “did you propose a solution” is actively harmful. Remember the “don’t jump to solutions, scope out the problem first” bit.
Given that he has been “drawing attention” to this issue more or less constantly for months, I think it is reasonable to demand he stop repeating himself and start actually developing the idea further in some actually constructive way.
I think he keeps repeating it because he cannot and he would like others to try. This is a perfectly reasonable request / idea.
I think at this point he should be offering some trade as apparently there is not really enough people interested in trying to solve it for free.
I doubt it, it’s the same pattern of behavior displayed when he complains about liberal transhumanists or the media bias against cryonics. It’s a “woe is me, the world is unjust” attitude, not constructive at all. It seems to me he just wants people to commiserate with him.
Commonly known as “whining”.