I propose to steelman SquirrelInHell’s proposal a little. What if we (for this discussion) define “niceness” to mean not the emotions but the behaviour those emotions typically produce? So being nice to someone means treating them as if you have positive feelings about them.
A norm in favour of that doesn’t seem obviously unreasonable.
I propose to steelman SquirrelInHell’s proposal a little. What if we (for this discussion) define “niceness” to mean not the emotions but the behaviour those emotions typically produce? So being nice to someone means treating them as if you have positive feelings about them.
A norm in favour of that doesn’t seem obviously unreasonable.