Just tagging I’ve intuitively used a similar approach for a long time, but adding the warning that there definitely are corrosive aspects to it, where everyone else loses value and get disrespected. Your subcomment delved into finer details valuably so I think you’re aware of this. Overall my favorite solution has been something like “I expect others to be mostly wrong, so I’m not surprised or hurt when they are, but I try to avoid mentally categorizing them in a degrading fashion” for most people. Everything is bad to an extent, everyone is bad to an extent, I can deal with it and try to make the world better. I don’t think there’s anyone who I admire/respect enough that I don’t expect them to make mistakes of the kind Duncan’s pointing at, so I’m not bothered even if it come from people I like or I think are competent on some other things.
Just tagging I’ve intuitively used a similar approach for a long time, but adding the warning that there definitely are corrosive aspects to it, where everyone else loses value and get disrespected. Your subcomment delved into finer details valuably so I think you’re aware of this.
Overall my favorite solution has been something like “I expect others to be mostly wrong, so I’m not surprised or hurt when they are, but I try to avoid mentally categorizing them in a degrading fashion” for most people. Everything is bad to an extent, everyone is bad to an extent, I can deal with it and try to make the world better.
I don’t think there’s anyone who I admire/respect enough that I don’t expect them to make mistakes of the kind Duncan’s pointing at, so I’m not bothered even if it come from people I like or I think are competent on some other things.