I am reluctant to mention specific examples, partly because maybe I’ve misunderstood and partly because I hate being at all confrontational. But regardless, I have definitely seen this outside the rationalist community, and I have definitely noticed myself doing this. Usually I only do it in my head though, where I feel upset when it’s coming from outside my group but if someone inside the group says it then I’ll mentally nod along.
I am reluctant to mention specific examples, partly because maybe I’ve misunderstood and partly because I hate being at all confrontational. But regardless, I have definitely seen this outside the rationalist community, and I have definitely noticed myself doing this. Usually I only do it in my head though, where I feel upset when it’s coming from outside my group but if someone inside the group says it then I’ll mentally nod along.