It’s true that your earlier comments were polite in tone. Nevertheless, they reflect an assumption that the person you are replying to should, at your request, provide a complete answer to your question. Whereas, if you read the foundational material they were drawing on and which this community views as the basics, you would already have some idea where they were coming from and why they thought what they thought.
When you join a community, it’s on you to learn to talk in their terminology and ontology enough to participate. You don’t walk into a church and expect the minister to drop everything mid-sermon to explain what the Bible is. You read it yourself, seek out 101 spaces and sources and classes, absorb more over time, and then dive in as you become ready. You don’t walk into a high level physics symposium and expect to be able to challenge a random attendee to defend Newton’s Laws. You study yourself, and then listen for a while, and read books and take classes, and then, maybe months or years later, start participating.
Go read the sequences, or at least the highlights from the sequences. Learn about the concept of steelmanning and start challenging your own arguments before you use them to challenge those of others. Go read ASX and SSC and learn what it looks like to take seriously and learn from an argument that seems ridiculous to you, whether or not you end up agreeing with it. Go look up CFAR and the resources and methods they’ve developed and/or recommended for improving individual rationality and making disagreements more productive.
I’m not going to pretend everyone here has done all of that. It’s not strictly necessary, by any means. But when people tell you you’re making a particular mistake, and point you to the resources that discuss the issue in detail and why it’s a mistake and how to improve, and this happens again and again on the same kinds of issues, you can either listen and learn in order to participate effectively, or get downvoted.
Nobody gave me good counter argument or good source. All I hear is “we don’t question these assumptions here”.
There is a fragment in Idiocracy where people starve because crops don’t grow because they water them with sports drink. And protagonist asks them—why you do that, plants need water, not sports drink. And they just answer “sports drink is better”. No doubt, no reason, only confident dogma. That’s how I feel
I have literally never seen anyone say anything like that here in response to a sincere question relevant to the topic at hand. Can you provide an example? Because I read through a bunch of your comment history earlier and found nothing of the sort. I see many suggestions to do basic research and read basic sources that include a thorough discussion of the assumptions, though.
What makes you think that these “read basic sources” are not dogmatic? You make the same mistake, you say that I should work on my logic without being sound in yours.
Of course some of them are dogmatic! So what? If you can’t learn how to learn from sources that make mistakes, then you will never have anything or anyone to learn from.
Yes, that one looks like it has a pleasant tone. But that’s one comment on a post that’s actively hostile toward the community you’re addressing.
I look forward to seeing your next post. My first few here were downvoted into the negatives, but not far because I’d at least tried to be somewhat deferential, knowing I hadn’t read most of the relevant work and that others reading my posts would have. And I had read a lot of LW content before posting, both out of interest, and to show I respected the community and their thinking, before asking for their time and attention.
I also should’ve mentioned that this is an issue near to my heart, since it took me a long time to figure out that I was often being forceful enough with my ideas to irritate people into either arguing with me or ignoring me, instead of really engaging with the ideas from a positive or neutral mindset. I still struggle with it. I think this dynamic doesn’t get nearly as much attention as it deserves; but there’s enough recognition of it among LW leadership and the community at large that this is an unusually productive discussion space, because it doesn’t devolve into emotionally charged arguments nearly as often as the rest of the internet and the world.
This community doesn’t mostly consider it unquestionable, many of them are just irritated with your presentation, causing them to emotionally not want to consider the question. You are either ignored or hated until you do the hard work of showing you’re worth listening to.
How can I put little effort but be perceived like someone worth listening? I thought announcing a monetary prize for someone who could find error in my reasoning 😅
No problem, tune changed.
But I don’t agree that this explains why I get downvotes.
Please feel free to take a look at my last comment here.
It’s true that your earlier comments were polite in tone. Nevertheless, they reflect an assumption that the person you are replying to should, at your request, provide a complete answer to your question. Whereas, if you read the foundational material they were drawing on and which this community views as the basics, you would already have some idea where they were coming from and why they thought what they thought.
When you join a community, it’s on you to learn to talk in their terminology and ontology enough to participate. You don’t walk into a church and expect the minister to drop everything mid-sermon to explain what the Bible is. You read it yourself, seek out 101 spaces and sources and classes, absorb more over time, and then dive in as you become ready. You don’t walk into a high level physics symposium and expect to be able to challenge a random attendee to defend Newton’s Laws. You study yourself, and then listen for a while, and read books and take classes, and then, maybe months or years later, start participating.
Go read the sequences, or at least the highlights from the sequences. Learn about the concept of steelmanning and start challenging your own arguments before you use them to challenge those of others. Go read ASX and SSC and learn what it looks like to take seriously and learn from an argument that seems ridiculous to you, whether or not you end up agreeing with it. Go look up CFAR and the resources and methods they’ve developed and/or recommended for improving individual rationality and making disagreements more productive.
I’m not going to pretend everyone here has done all of that. It’s not strictly necessary, by any means. But when people tell you you’re making a particular mistake, and point you to the resources that discuss the issue in detail and why it’s a mistake and how to improve, and this happens again and again on the same kinds of issues, you can either listen and learn in order to participate effectively, or get downvoted.
Nobody gave me good counter argument or good source. All I hear is “we don’t question these assumptions here”.
There is a fragment in Idiocracy where people starve because crops don’t grow because they water them with sports drink. And protagonist asks them—why you do that, plants need water, not sports drink. And they just answer “sports drink is better”. No doubt, no reason, only confident dogma. That’s how I feel
I have literally never seen anyone say anything like that here in response to a sincere question relevant to the topic at hand. Can you provide an example? Because I read through a bunch of your comment history earlier and found nothing of the sort. I see many suggestions to do basic research and read basic sources that include a thorough discussion of the assumptions, though.
What makes you think that these “read basic sources” are not dogmatic? You make the same mistake, you say that I should work on my logic without being sound in yours.
Of course some of them are dogmatic! So what? If you can’t learn how to learn from sources that make mistakes, then you will never have anything or anyone to learn from.
Yes, that one looks like it has a pleasant tone. But that’s one comment on a post that’s actively hostile toward the community you’re addressing.
I look forward to seeing your next post. My first few here were downvoted into the negatives, but not far because I’d at least tried to be somewhat deferential, knowing I hadn’t read most of the relevant work and that others reading my posts would have. And I had read a lot of LW content before posting, both out of interest, and to show I respected the community and their thinking, before asking for their time and attention.
Me too.
I also should’ve mentioned that this is an issue near to my heart, since it took me a long time to figure out that I was often being forceful enough with my ideas to irritate people into either arguing with me or ignoring me, instead of really engaging with the ideas from a positive or neutral mindset. I still struggle with it. I think this dynamic doesn’t get nearly as much attention as it deserves; but there’s enough recognition of it among LW leadership and the community at large that this is an unusually productive discussion space, because it doesn’t devolve into emotionally charged arguments nearly as often as the rest of the internet and the world.
How can I positively question something that this community considers unquestionable? I am either ignored or hated
This community doesn’t mostly consider it unquestionable, many of them are just irritated with your presentation, causing them to emotionally not want to consider the question. You are either ignored or hated until you do the hard work of showing you’re worth listening to.
How can I put little effort but be perceived like someone worth listening? I thought announcing a monetary prize for someone who could find error in my reasoning 😅