You keep coming back to your mental health issues.
Before you donate to charity you should try to make sure you don’t wind up in a position to need charity (and yes, this is not something one has full control over, but an F4 shattering your house to toothpicks is a very different thing from getting thrown out of your apartment because you were incapacitated for a couple months and got reduced/no pay). Save your money or spend it on specialists/treatments likely to reduce your problems.
This will wind up cascading into other areas of your life.
You keep coming back to your mental health issues.
Before you donate to charity you should try to make sure you don’t wind up in a position to need charity (and yes, this is not something one has full control over, but an F4 shattering your house to toothpicks is a very different thing from getting thrown out of your apartment because you were incapacitated for a couple months and got reduced/no pay). Save your money or spend it on specialists/treatments likely to reduce your problems.
This will wind up cascading into other areas of your life.
That’s roughly what mum says to, based on less rationality but a lot more info. So I guess I’ll just continue trusting her then.
Has your mom ever given you a good reason to distrust her motives?
No. But she have given me reason to distrust her rationality and understanding when it comes to efficient charity.