Okay, my point was that if you accept that people are going to try to control you, it’s rather silly to complain about that means. But apparently you classify all people who attempt to control you as enemies. I suppose that’s a consistent view, and compatible with civilization if you allow control to enforce an agreed-upon set of laws.
But it doesn’t seem to allow for progress. If someone discovers that marital rape is not okay, contrary to mainstream belief, what are they supposed to do? Publishing a paper entitled “Psychological effects of nonconsensual sex between spouses” would count as informing rather than controlling; it would also be vastly less effective than making marital rape illegal, portraying characters who rape their spouses as horrible monsters, and shaming rapists.
If someone tries to control me and I disagree with their position, my answer is not “By attempting to control me you have made yourself my enemy”, but “I don’t agree that bestiality is cruel to animals, so I will fight your attempts to make it unacceptable, but I don’t disapprove of these attempts on principle. For example, I agree with your subargument about indecent exposure, so Knuckles here and I are going to get a room”.
Publishing a paper entitled “Psychological effects of nonconsensual sex between spouses” would count as informing rather than controlling; it would also be vastly less effective than making marital rape illegal, portraying characters who rape their spouses as horrible monsters, and shaming rapists.
I don’t think this is evident enough to be affirmed without supporting evidence. There’s evidence that such laws and shame-guilt-tripping might be much less effective than publishing a good comprehensive paper.
Prime example: Videogame piracy. Strong IP laws. Massive attempts at guilt-trip and manipulation of mass populace. Observed effect: No measurable effect of the laws and anti-piracy measures, and a continued growth of piracy. The growth is most likely attributable to other causes.
On the flipside, dev companies that have announced that they won’t do anything against piracy have seen considerable advertisement boosts from it and have on average enjoyed much greater success thanks to this.
Okay, my point was that if you accept that people are going to try to control you, it’s rather silly to complain about that means.
Not only do I care about what means people use to control me, for any given person asserting that they don’t care what means people use to control them I would be confident in declaring them confused about their own preferences.
But apparently you classify all people who attempt to control you as enemies.
No I don’t, and wouldn’t. Why on earth would I give away my power like that? I’ll do whatever I want in response to people attempting to control me including complying with indifference, ignoring them, gaining more social power so that people are unable to or unlikely to make that kind of moves. Some people doing (or being likely to do) certain things would make them enemies but that is rare and implies giving them a significant degree of respect and attention. It doesn’t happen often.
We agree on the first point! I’m saying some means are worse than others, and shame/guilt is one of the best ones.
As Dave pointed out, we need to taboo “enemy”. “This person’s actions are bothering me; I’ll minimize annoyance” is treating the person as your enemy in the sense I was using it. Not treating them as an enemy is “This person is trying to do good, yet their actions aren’t the ones I think are best; I shall update on what they believe, and tell them what I believe so they can do same; if we still disagree, I’ll minimize total annoyance among us both”. If most people are your enemies by that definition, you’re… not typical audience for social justice rhetoric.
Okay, my point was that if you accept that people are going to try to control you, it’s rather silly to complain about that means. But apparently you classify all people who attempt to control you as enemies. I suppose that’s a consistent view, and compatible with civilization if you allow control to enforce an agreed-upon set of laws.
But it doesn’t seem to allow for progress. If someone discovers that marital rape is not okay, contrary to mainstream belief, what are they supposed to do? Publishing a paper entitled “Psychological effects of nonconsensual sex between spouses” would count as informing rather than controlling; it would also be vastly less effective than making marital rape illegal, portraying characters who rape their spouses as horrible monsters, and shaming rapists.
If someone tries to control me and I disagree with their position, my answer is not “By attempting to control me you have made yourself my enemy”, but “I don’t agree that bestiality is cruel to animals, so I will fight your attempts to make it unacceptable, but I don’t disapprove of these attempts on principle. For example, I agree with your subargument about indecent exposure, so Knuckles here and I are going to get a room”.
I don’t think this is evident enough to be affirmed without supporting evidence. There’s evidence that such laws and shame-guilt-tripping might be much less effective than publishing a good comprehensive paper.
Prime example: Videogame piracy. Strong IP laws. Massive attempts at guilt-trip and manipulation of mass populace. Observed effect: No measurable effect of the laws and anti-piracy measures, and a continued growth of piracy. The growth is most likely attributable to other causes.
On the flipside, dev companies that have announced that they won’t do anything against piracy have seen considerable advertisement boosts from it and have on average enjoyed much greater success thanks to this.
Not only do I care about what means people use to control me, for any given person asserting that they don’t care what means people use to control them I would be confident in declaring them confused about their own preferences.
No I don’t, and wouldn’t. Why on earth would I give away my power like that? I’ll do whatever I want in response to people attempting to control me including complying with indifference, ignoring them, gaining more social power so that people are unable to or unlikely to make that kind of moves. Some people doing (or being likely to do) certain things would make them enemies but that is rare and implies giving them a significant degree of respect and attention. It doesn’t happen often.
We agree on the first point! I’m saying some means are worse than others, and shame/guilt is one of the best ones.
As Dave pointed out, we need to taboo “enemy”. “This person’s actions are bothering me; I’ll minimize annoyance” is treating the person as your enemy in the sense I was using it. Not treating them as an enemy is “This person is trying to do good, yet their actions aren’t the ones I think are best; I shall update on what they believe, and tell them what I believe so they can do same; if we still disagree, I’ll minimize total annoyance among us both”. If most people are your enemies by that definition, you’re… not typical audience for social justice rhetoric.
Can you taboo “enemy”? I’m not at all convinced it means the same thing throughout this exchange.