I happen to agree with you (I think), but still, it sounds like you’re generalizing from one example. Your personal life experience is no substitute for hard data.
He said:
I see and know of tons of “patriarchal” (gender-unfair, discriminatory, negative-emotion-inducing, etc.) behaviors, yes.
So it’s clear that he’s not claiming that his claims about his social circle apply to the rest of society.
He said:
So it’s clear that he’s not claiming that his claims about his social circle apply to the rest of society.