I finally realized what all this slithering reminds me of! If you want to experience the same emotions as Harry and the other kids when they weave Slytherin-style plots, lying to X about Y and to Y about X, brilliantly escaping from detection… just try juggling two or three concurrent girlfriends or boyfriends.
just try juggling two or three concurrent girlfriends or boyfriends.
I’m actually rather curious as to what that would be like, specifically how difficult it would be to keep the intrigue from exploding. I’m actually thinking that these days Facebook would be most irritating hurdle.
Honest N-way relationships involve less plotting, lying, and escaping from detection than dishonest ones, which was my point. But, agreed, they still involve work.
I finally realized what all this slithering reminds me of! If you want to experience the same emotions as Harry and the other kids when they weave Slytherin-style plots, lying to X about Y and to Y about X, brilliantly escaping from detection… just try juggling two or three concurrent girlfriends or boyfriends.
Or if you want to do it in a way that isn’t unethical, you can play Illuminati or Diplomacy or The “A Game of Thrones” Boardgame.
I’m actually rather curious as to what that would be like, specifically how difficult it would be to keep the intrigue from exploding. I’m actually thinking that these days Facebook would be most irritating hurdle.
...who don’t know about one another.
From experience, open and informed polyamory isn’t actually less work.
Honest N-way relationships involve less plotting, lying, and escaping from detection than dishonest ones, which was my point. But, agreed, they still involve work.
I think he added that line in reference to this part of the first poster that said:
Hopefully, that would not be included in an open relationship of any kind.