Why would lesbians have trouble? Their pool of partners is small, but so is their pool of competitors. It’s nothing like the situation that men face in a mostly male community.
With gay people, all possible partners are also possible competitors. Therefore, a larger pool can only be better because there is a higher chance of someone being appealing at all. By your logic having exactly two lesbians would be ideal, because no one could compete with them; but without the dumbest of dumb luck, they’d be poorly suited to each other.
The variance grows more slowly than the number, so the largeness of the pool probably doesn’t make much of a difference above a lower bound. 10,000 lesbians are probably in less dating trouble than 1,000,000 men competing for 900,000 women. I could be wrong.
In many animal populations, unbalanced gender ratios leads to higher incidence of homosexuality. I wouldn’t be surprised if that happens to humans in similar circumstances.
It is, anyway, a plausible explanation for the “lesbian until graduation” phenomenon, which occurs on (typically female-dominated) college campuses.
I’m not sure where you disagree with me. N possible partners = N possible competitors sounds just like the typical situation of heterosexuals, no special trouble in sight. Are you maybe too accustomed to being a female in a mostly-male community? From that vantage point it does seem that lesbians are in trouble.
Not good from the point of view of men looking for atheist partners, but good from the point of view of these rare females.
Except the lesbians, who may have some trouble.
Why would lesbians have trouble? Their pool of partners is small, but so is their pool of competitors. It’s nothing like the situation that men face in a mostly male community.
With gay people, all possible partners are also possible competitors. Therefore, a larger pool can only be better because there is a higher chance of someone being appealing at all. By your logic having exactly two lesbians would be ideal, because no one could compete with them; but without the dumbest of dumb luck, they’d be poorly suited to each other.
The variance grows more slowly than the number, so the largeness of the pool probably doesn’t make much of a difference above a lower bound. 10,000 lesbians are probably in less dating trouble than 1,000,000 men competing for 900,000 women. I could be wrong.
In many animal populations, unbalanced gender ratios leads to higher incidence of homosexuality. I wouldn’t be surprised if that happens to humans in similar circumstances.
It is, anyway, a plausible explanation for the “lesbian until graduation” phenomenon, which occurs on (typically female-dominated) college campuses.
I’m not sure where you disagree with me. N possible partners = N possible competitors sounds just like the typical situation of heterosexuals, no special trouble in sight. Are you maybe too accustomed to being a female in a mostly-male community? From that vantage point it does seem that lesbians are in trouble.
Nice save ;)
touché. And the gay men, who have yet another situation.