It would be an evolutionary win to be interested in things that the other gender is interested in.
Why? I think that perhaps your reasoning is that you date someone based upon whether they have the same interests as you. But I suspect that this may be false—i.e. we confabulate shared interests as an explanation, where the real explanation is status or looks.
Why? I think that perhaps your reasoning is that you date someone based upon whether they have the same interests as you. But I suspect that this may be false—i.e. we confabulate shared interests as an explanation, where the real explanation is status or looks.