I remember being shocked how many kids were totally disinterested and disengaged from the thing they were dedicating close to half of their waking hours. That never happened when I was homeschooled—if I wasn’t interested in something, or didn’t like how something was being taught, it could be done differently. I understand that’s a very labor intensive way to teach, and I don’t blame kids for being disengaged from the unpaid fulltime job they’re being actively coherced into doing. I want to believe school shouldn’t be mandatory, and that a lot of kids would benefit from dropping out and getting an apprenticeship in a field that interests them, traveling, or doing ANYTHING that actual engages them and gets them to develop some kind of expertise (even playing videogames or smoking weed all day can built a knowledge base that’s useful for many careers).
In my case, the lack of structure in unschooling hadn’t exposed me to enough academic community to inspire me. Sure, we went on group trips to museums and did experiments, but that wasn’t the same as having an actual program with a clear path to a field. At 14 I wanted to be a chef or a massage therapist. After starting school, and getting into AP STEM classes with other motivated kids, I realized I actually do really enjoy math and science and ended up majoring in physics in college.
I also think a lot of parents underestimate the amount of work and expertise that’s required to homeschool, and that can strain the relationship kids have with their parents. For very independent, free-thinking kids who love to read it can work very well. For an anxious, distractible kid like me who needs a little more structure it was a frequent source of conflict. Schools can also act as a site for social workers to provide support in a way that’s very difficult to emulate at home. Parents often miss psychological disorders like anxiety, depression, and ADHD in their kids that teachers can recognize right away (I’m having trouble finding the source I had for this, can anyone support or contradict this in an empirical way?) and I suspect I would have had access to medical interventions for some minor mental health problems much earlier on if I had been in school.
Parents often miss psychological disorders like anxiety, depression, and ADHD in their kids that teachers can recognize right away (I’m having trouble finding the source I had for this, can anyone support or contradict this in an empirical way?)
Pediatricians and teachers sometimes pick up on that.
There’s also more teachers that might recognize it. (That is, kids have more teachers than parents.) More eyeballs, and all that. (Though it might be more about being trained to recognize.)
I don’t have data, on how common stuff is caught by a teacher versus a parent (versus a doctor).
I remember being shocked how many kids were totally disinterested and disengaged from the thing they were dedicating close to half of their waking hours. That never happened when I was homeschooled—if I wasn’t interested in something, or didn’t like how something was being taught, it could be done differently. I understand that’s a very labor intensive way to teach, and I don’t blame kids for being disengaged from the unpaid fulltime job they’re being actively coherced into doing. I want to believe school shouldn’t be mandatory, and that a lot of kids would benefit from dropping out and getting an apprenticeship in a field that interests them, traveling, or doing ANYTHING that actual engages them and gets them to develop some kind of expertise (even playing videogames or smoking weed all day can built a knowledge base that’s useful for many careers).
In my case, the lack of structure in unschooling hadn’t exposed me to enough academic community to inspire me. Sure, we went on group trips to museums and did experiments, but that wasn’t the same as having an actual program with a clear path to a field. At 14 I wanted to be a chef or a massage therapist. After starting school, and getting into AP STEM classes with other motivated kids, I realized I actually do really enjoy math and science and ended up majoring in physics in college.
I also think a lot of parents underestimate the amount of work and expertise that’s required to homeschool, and that can strain the relationship kids have with their parents. For very independent, free-thinking kids who love to read it can work very well. For an anxious, distractible kid like me who needs a little more structure it was a frequent source of conflict. Schools can also act as a site for social workers to provide support in a way that’s very difficult to emulate at home. Parents often miss psychological disorders like anxiety, depression, and ADHD in their kids that teachers can recognize right away (I’m having trouble finding the source I had for this, can anyone support or contradict this in an empirical way?) and I suspect I would have had access to medical interventions for some minor mental health problems much earlier on if I had been in school.
Pediatricians and teachers sometimes pick up on that.
There’s also more teachers that might recognize it. (That is, kids have more teachers than parents.) More eyeballs, and all that. (Though it might be more about being trained to recognize.)
I don’t have data, on how common stuff is caught by a teacher versus a parent (versus a doctor).