Any self-help technique can be trivially defeated by arguing with it. And anything can be argued with, because the whole point (evolutionarily speaking) of our critical faculties is to find things we can attack in that which we have defined as our enemy. The truth, relevance, or usefulness of the argument is beside the point.
When I read that book I didn’t even notice anything about pride or self-worth, honestly. I wasn’t reading it because I drink (I don’t), but as research into his approach. I found it fascinating because the various arguments I noticed seemed pretty universal to almost anything one might want to quit.
Anyway, I wasn’t looking for things to argue with, so I didn’t find any. In general, it’s not useful to read a self-help book looking for things to argue with: skim over those, and look for things you agree with, or at least things you can consider with an open mind. Carr’s books explicitly point out the need for this consideration at the beginning, and you will get more value out of them if you heed that advice.
Do you write about this i.e. new websites as TTD or DS are not maintained much lately?
Mostly I do online workshops with my paying subscribers, and the occasional tweet about things I’m noticing or realizing as they come up.
Any self-help technique can be trivially defeated by arguing with it. And anything can be argued with, because the whole point (evolutionarily speaking) of our critical faculties is to find things we can attack in that which we have defined as our enemy. The truth, relevance, or usefulness of the argument is beside the point.
When I read that book I didn’t even notice anything about pride or self-worth, honestly. I wasn’t reading it because I drink (I don’t), but as research into his approach. I found it fascinating because the various arguments I noticed seemed pretty universal to almost anything one might want to quit.
Anyway, I wasn’t looking for things to argue with, so I didn’t find any. In general, it’s not useful to read a self-help book looking for things to argue with: skim over those, and look for things you agree with, or at least things you can consider with an open mind. Carr’s books explicitly point out the need for this consideration at the beginning, and you will get more value out of them if you heed that advice.
Mostly I do online workshops with my paying subscribers, and the occasional tweet about things I’m noticing or realizing as they come up.