I think most of this is just aging, and is normal. I associate that “challenge the world as hard as you can” mentality with testosterone and with teenage boys (who are very high in testosterone). It’s a good mindset to have when you’re starting out and need to make a place for yourself in the world.
At 29, you have (hopefully) established yourself a bit but are still young enough to be attractive to women. Your instincts are probably telling you (through the medium of lowered testosterone) that it’s time to settle down and raise some kids. Circle of life and all that.
I think most of this is just aging, and is normal. I associate that “challenge the world as hard as you can” mentality with testosterone and with teenage boys (who are very high in testosterone). It’s a good mindset to have when you’re starting out and need to make a place for yourself in the world.
At 29, you have (hopefully) established yourself a bit but are still young enough to be attractive to women. Your instincts are probably telling you (through the medium of lowered testosterone) that it’s time to settle down and raise some kids. Circle of life and all that.