I have an important choice to make in a few months (about what type of education to pursue). I have changed my mind once already, and after hearing a presentation where the presenter clearly favored my old choice, I’m about to revert my decision—in fact, introspection tells me that my decision was already changed at some point during the presentation. In regards to my original change of mind, I may also have been affected by the friend who gave me the idea.
All of this worries me, and I’ve started making a list of everything I know as far as pros/cons go of each choice. I want to weigh the options objectively and make a decision. I fear that, already favoring one of the two choices, I won’t be objective.
How do I decrease my bias and get myself as close as possible to that awesome point at the start of a discussion where you can list pros and cons and describe the options without having yet gotten attached to any position?
Harder Choices Matter Less. Unless you expect that there is a way of improving your understanding of the problem at a reasonable cost (such as discussing the actual object level problem), the choice is now less important, specifically because of the difficulty in choosing.
From rereading the article, which I swear I stumbled upon recently, I took away that I shouldn’t take too long to decide after I’ve written my list, lest I spend the extra time conjuring extra points and rationalizations to match my bias.
As for the meat of the post, I don’t think it applies as much due to the importance of the decision. I could go out and gather more information, but I believe I have enough, and now it’s just a matter of weighing all the factors; for which purpose, I think, some agonizing and bias removal is worth the pain.
Hopefully I can get somewhere with the bias removal step, as opposed to getting stuck on it. (And, considering that I just learned something, I guess this can be labeled “progress”! Thanks :))
I have an important choice to make in a few months (about what type of education to pursue). I have changed my mind once already, and after hearing a presentation where the presenter clearly favored my old choice, I’m about to revert my decision—in fact, introspection tells me that my decision was already changed at some point during the presentation. In regards to my original change of mind, I may also have been affected by the friend who gave me the idea.
All of this worries me, and I’ve started making a list of everything I know as far as pros/cons go of each choice. I want to weigh the options objectively and make a decision. I fear that, already favoring one of the two choices, I won’t be objective.
How do I decrease my bias and get myself as close as possible to that awesome point at the start of a discussion where you can list pros and cons and describe the options without having yet gotten attached to any position?
Harder Choices Matter Less. Unless you expect that there is a way of improving your understanding of the problem at a reasonable cost (such as discussing the actual object level problem), the choice is now less important, specifically because of the difficulty in choosing.
From rereading the article, which I swear I stumbled upon recently, I took away that I shouldn’t take too long to decide after I’ve written my list, lest I spend the extra time conjuring extra points and rationalizations to match my bias.
As for the meat of the post, I don’t think it applies as much due to the importance of the decision. I could go out and gather more information, but I believe I have enough, and now it’s just a matter of weighing all the factors; for which purpose, I think, some agonizing and bias removal is worth the pain.
Hopefully I can get somewhere with the bias removal step, as opposed to getting stuck on it. (And, considering that I just learned something, I guess this can be labeled “progress”! Thanks :))