Isn’t using it a clear signal that no one in the user’s friend/acquaintance groups desires to date them?
I guess, if no one in my social circle wants to date me, what do I lose by announcing this fact to people I wouldn’t have met otherwise anyway? And given that they also use the dating app, they are unlikely to reject me just because I use the same dating app… that would defeat the entire purpose.
(Technically, if you are polyamorous, you are only signalling that there are not enough people in your social circle willing to date you, for whatever is your personal definition of “enough”.)
And that if they are on it for more then a few days, that they are less desirable partners?
It would make sense to reset your account regularly.
This is why I was always puzzled why Tinder, or other dating apps, became so popular.
Isn’t using it a clear signal that no one in the user’s friend/acquaintance groups desires to date them?
And that if they are on it for more then a few days, that they are less desirable partners?
There seems to be a negative feedback loop to scale instead of positive.
I guess, if no one in my social circle wants to date me, what do I lose by announcing this fact to people I wouldn’t have met otherwise anyway? And given that they also use the dating app, they are unlikely to reject me just because I use the same dating app… that would defeat the entire purpose.
(Technically, if you are polyamorous, you are only signalling that there are not enough people in your social circle willing to date you, for whatever is your personal definition of “enough”.)
It would make sense to reset your account regularly.
This got a laugh out of me. That’s certainly one way to go about it.